Rishtay....

Gita me kaha gaya hai ki "tum kya lekar aaye the aur kya lekar jaoge". bilkul thik hai aaj sochte hai iis bare me. doosare nazariye se sochte hai ki hum kya lekar aaye the? bandh mutthi me kuch lakeerain thi..aur oon lakeeron ko kharch ker hatheliyon ko khula rakh ker chale jayenge.

per sawal hai doosare saar ka ki jo paya  yahin per paya. sahi hai insaan cahe jitna paisa pale per adhoora hi rahta hai...koi cheej hai jo wakai me hume pana cahiye wo hain log, rishtay.

Rishtay jo insan ki sabse badi kamjori bhi hoti hai aur sabse badi taqat. ek bacche ke liye sabse taqatwar insan ooska Pita hota hai. ooski sabse badi taqat ooski Ma hoti hai. aur ye hi rishtay insaan ki sabse badi kamzori hoti hai. Bahan ko vida karte samay kabhi kisi ke samne na jukne wala bhai aapni bahan ke sarusaal walo se ye zaroor kahta hai "palko per baitha ker rakha hai aap khayal rakhiyega."

wakai me rishtay badi hi aachi cheej banai hai malik ne. poora jeevan hum oonhi ke sath bita dete hai aur jab jeevan chodne ka waqt aata hai wo iinhi rishton ke liye phir ek baar jeene ki iicha hoti hai.

ye to hooi wo rishtay jo malik hume tohfe ke roop me deta hai. kuch rishtey aaise bhi hote hai jinhe hum khud cunte hai. jaise Dost, kahte hai..

Ye jindagi badi choti hai..
tu chalta chala chal.
Dushmani ke liye samay kahan hai...
Tu to dost banate chal...

Bas ye hi ker raha hoon, Dushmani ke liye mere pass bhi waqt nahi hai to main to dost banata chala ja raha hoon.
Mere Dost kahte hai tu humesha muskurata rahta hai...karan dhundhne chala tha to mila ki mere bahut sare dost hai..oonme se koi na koi to khush hoga hi. oonki khushi me mera khush hona to banta hai na...

Dostn kya bolte ho main sach kahraha hoon na...agar meri baat se ittafaq rakhte hai to is post per comment dijiye...Main intazar karoonga,,,,

Love...

Doston pahle to mafi ki pichle 2 sat se aapko nayee post nahi milee...aap to jante hai ki main kitna aalsi hoon....chalo aaj ki baat aage badhate hai...

Today I want to talk about a magical work that is Love. When we read this word or listen to that word then we got a different feeling. That feeling you can not justify in words. Let us talk about mothers Love. When she put her hand on our head that time we just go to an another world. At least it was happed to me. Whenever I had problems I used to go to my mother and without saying my problem in words. She just kept her hand on my head and let me take a relax in her lap. Oh!! I cannot express that time in words. That was the time I usually got the solution.

But today I am not talking about the love of mother. Or care of father. I am talking about the love of someone special whom we always want for our entire life. Same effect happens but the different feeling when my love takes my hand in hers. I got the solution for my problem because at least I realize that someone is there who is with me.

Let us talk about the time when we saw first girl or a boy and something happen in deep in heart. Lovely feeling.  At least I can live life with that only feeling, when I saw her first time. Or when I see her any time. Oh! That doesn`t mean that I know who is she? She is just an imaginary personality as on now and till the time I got the face of that imaginary person.

But I saw my friends finding their love enjoying their time with their loved one.

It isn`t a different feeling when we expect someone to hold our hand when we are on sea shore, or when we are in a party, or when we got a success or when we fail, or when we become old.

I heard once a proposal where a guy said a very beautiful line that “I love you whatever you are, whatever you will but I Love you. I know today we are young and attractive and you are so beautiful, but I don`t love your beauty, I don`t love your attractiveness. I love you. And I will do when you become 60 year old with wrinkles and shaky hands and slow walk. I will love to walk when I`ll have stick in one hand and your hand in other. Will you want to be with me”

Wow! What a feeling it was. I was amazed by listing to that. I am still waiting for that hand or for that face, with which I can spend my whole life whether it is till dec 2012 or 31.12.9999……

sapne...

aaj gher ki khidki se Baitha..
Bahar Udati chidiya ko dekh raha tha..
mere bhi pankh the kabhi...
aaj phir oonhi ko khoj raha tha...

wo bhi kya din the jab pankh failaye..
udane ki koshish kerte the..
asmaan tha to bahut door...
per pal me chune ki koshish kerte the....

nanhi se aankhen thi...
per sapne bahut bade dekhe the...
socha tha poora karenge oonko...
hauslon ke tarazo me tolte the....

tabhi ek aaisa mod aaya...
hausalon ko maine ek chita main jalaya...
sapne to aaj bhi hai aankhon me....
per himmat ko maine suli chadaya....

log kahte the ye kuch karega...
kuch kerne se darta hoon...
main kya kuch karoonga....
aab to khushi se bhi darta hoon...

Tension....

हम अक्सर सोचतें है की हमे सबसे ज्यादा टेंशन है

कभी सोचा है नुक्कड़ पर बैठे एक चाय वाले को कितना टेंशन रहता होगा
प्लेटफोर्म पर चाबी के छल्ले बेचने वाले अंधे आदमी को कितना टेंशन होता होगा, सोचो उस चाय वाले आदमी के बच्चे ने कल रात को उससे कहा था की की पिताजी कल काम से लौटते समय मेरे लिए खिलौना लेते हूए आना पर उस दिन चाय ज्यादा नहीं बिक पाई, और खिलौना खरीदने जितना पैसा वह बचा नहीं सका, तो उस आदमी के ह्रदय पर क्या गुजरती होगी की बच्चे ने कोई फर्माहिश की है और मैं उसे भी पूरा नहीं कर पा रहा हूँ, उस अंधे फेरीवाले के बारे में सोचो जब उसके अंधेपन के कारन उसके चाबी के छल्ले कोई चुरा लगाया या कही गिरा दिए और जितना कमाया था उतना नुकसान हो गया अब उसकी विडम्बना देखिये यदि वह बचे हूए पैसो से रात का खाना खरीदता है तो कल का सामान खरीदकर कैसे बेचेगा
और अगर कल के सामान के लिए पैसे बचाएगा तो आज परिवार को क्या खिलायेगा

यदि आप इन दोनों की चिंता अथवा टेंशन के बारे में सोचेंगे तो आपको आपका टेंशन काफी छोटा दिखाई पड़ेगा
क्योंकि आपको यह टेंशन होगा की मुझे छुट्टी नहीं मिल रही है
बॉस ज्यादा काम करवा रहा है
या सखी ने आज ज्यादा पैसे उद्वा दिए
या आज खाना अच्छा नहीं बना था
मेरी तनख्वाह मेरे मित्र से कम है

चलिए इतने छोटे तमगे के इंसान के टेंशन से तुलना मत कीजिये
एक मध्यम वर्गीय परिवार के टेंशन की बात करते है इस महंगाई के दौर मैं एक इंसान महीने के ५००० कमाता है और इससे अधिक वह कम नहीं सकता क्योंकी वह इमानदार है
अअब बताइए यदि प्याज़ ७० रूपये हो तो वह क्या कमाएगा और क्या आपने शौक पुरे करेगा
इस बीच यदि तनख्वाह आने में १ २ दिन देर हो जाये और घर में बच्चा बीमार हो, घर में लगा बिजली का बल्ब ख़राब हो जाये, घर में आटा न हो तो वह इंसान क्या करेगा
बच्चे का इलाज उसका पेट भरना या उसकी पढाई के लिए बिजली का बल्ब
उसके टेंशन की सीमा को महसूस कीजिये

तो यदि आगे से कभी भी टेंशन हो तो मेरी इस छोटी से बात पर गौर फर्मायेगा और विचार कीजिये की किसकी चिंता बड़ी मेरी या इस किस्से में दर्शाए गए तीन लोगो की, हो सकता है इन तीनो लोगो को समस्याओ से मिलती जुलती आपकी भी जिंदगी रही होगी
जब आपके बड़े बुजुर्ग कुछ ऐसा ही सोचते होंगे, यदि इन तीन महापुरुषों के बारे में न सोच सके तो अपने बुजुर्गो का ध्यान कर लीजियेगा इससे आपके मन में उनके लिए सम्मान भी बढेगा और उनकी चिंता का स्तर भी समज आएगा

तो मेरी एक बात याद रख लीजिये की चिंता चिता के समान होती है सिर्फ एक बिंदी का ही फर्क है तो हँसिये गाइए मुस्कुराइए और टेंशन को पेंसन लेने भेज दीजिये......

Insaan....

Aaj gher per baithe hooe khidki se bahr dekh raha tha, achanak dyan balcony per gaya aur dekha gher ki wo jagah jahan humne kabhi dhyan nahi diya wah to kabootaron ka basera sa ban gayi hai...5-6 kabootari aapne ando ko sek rahi thi kinme se kuch bacche bhi ban gaye the....to anayas hi socha ki inh yahan se bhagaya jaay..ye humare gher ko ganda ker rahe hai....aur ooth ker 1 2 naye ando ko maine fodne ke liye ootha liya....tabhi ek mitra bola ki "rahne dijiye malik....hum insan in parindo ko begher kerne ke liye jinmewar hai kya hooa agar ye parinde humare gher ki thodi se jagah maang rahe hai isame kya boora hai". Dimag ke taar hil gaye ki baat me gahrai to hai.....sochna padeda.....chaliye sochte hai....
Wakai hum insan itane swarthi hote hai jo aapne aap ke nahi ho sakte wo in parindo ke kya hoonge....aaj 90% insaan Daulat ke piche pagal hai. Koi paisa roopi daulat ke piche daud raha hai to koi rutbe roopi daulat ke piche....koi nashe ki daulat to koi jism ki daulat...bas daulat ke piche insan bawra sa ho gaya hai. main ye nahi kahta ki main inse alag hoon. akhir main bhi insaan hoon alag kaise ho sakta hoon. nahi to log samjenge ki keval bhashan dilwa lo jaise khood to doodh ka dhula hai isliye spastikaran anivarya hai.

ek masoom sa bejuban janvar jiska is sansaar me shayad koi nahi oos per hum insaan atyachar ke alawa kuch nahi kerte. kyon na hum me se kuch insaan is parindo ke apne ban jaye to shayad kuch jantuo ki nasle bach jayengi kyonki jo vilupt ho gayee oonka to hum kuch ker nahi sakte.

aab maine kaha ke is duniya me oonka koi nahi is tathya ko sabit kerna hooga. main jab bhi pareshan hota hoon koi koi rasta nazar nahi aata to main seedha aapni MA ke anchal me ja baithta, aur anayas hi sare raste nazar aane lagte hai. per in jantuo ke bacche jab bade ho jate hai to oonki mataye hi oone chhood ker chali jati hai to ye parinde, ye bejuban jantu aapni samasya kise batayenge? inka aapna kaun hai? ye sawal wakai vichar kerne yogya hai. aur ye vichar keval insaano ko kerna hoga kyon ishwer,allah,yesu,guru jinhe bhi hum mante hai oosne sochne ki taqat sirf hume di hai..

Malik ne sochne ke sath bhavnaye hume hi di hai oon bhavnao me bahker hi sahi inke apane ban ker dekhiye…

..main aapni baat yahi rokta hoon....sochiye is bare me....

Kuch Batain Shayarana andaz me …..

jindagi ek kitab hai padhta chala chal....

jita ja aur majje lootta chala chal....
panne palatne ki koshish mat ker....
jo ye sikhaye oose sikhta chala chal....
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kya tha main aur kya ho gaya hoo...
good boy tha main thoda Bad ho gaya hoon..
Chote se shahar ka ladka tha main....
aab mumbaiya ho gaya hoon......
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Phone aur facebook jaise sadhan hai humare pass
milte rahenge is baat ka hai viahwas...
phir bhi na jane Kyon aaj bhi hai....
bichadne per gum ka ehsaas....
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yadain..
Yadain bhi ajab khel khelti hain....
Zindagi ke lamhon ko alfazo se tolti hai....
jis pal dil khol ker muskuraye the hum log...
aaj oonhi bataon ko gum ke tarazo se tolti hai...
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yu khada main samander kinare...
gunguna raha tha zindagi ke fasane...
koshish kuch aaisi thi man me...
alfaz jod ker likh do ye tarane...

kya paya hai aab tak maine..
aur na jane kya kho aaya hoon main...
bahut kuch hai pane ki iicha man me...
na jane kahan kho jaonga main....

kitne hi dost mile is rah me...
kuch sirf mile to kuch jaan ban gaye...
kuch khoob hase mere sath...
to kuch har arzoo ke gawah ban gaye...

kuch pane ki ek lagan si lagi hai...
per raste dushwar ban gaye...
socha malik se thodi madad hi le loon....
per sirf do nain hi mere bhgwan ban gaye...

shabd nahi hai mere zahan me...
kuch panno ko bayan kar sakoo...
bade hi nayab hai wo lamhe....
tamanna hai onnhe akhtiyar ker sakoo...
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yu tha khada aur soch bhi na paya....
manzile thi anek per raste dhundh na paya...
kahle wo umar hai meri raas lilao wali...
per kya karoo aab tak gopi to pata na paya...

Gopi na pata paya isame mera koi dosh nahi...
mahangai itani hai ki kisi ka koi dost nahi....
aur aaj kal ki gpoiya bhi itani tez hai...
ki kewal raas leela hi oonke manki mauj nahi....
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Ye dil bhi gajab dhata hai...

na jane kaise khaab sajata hai...
poore ho har khaab is dil ke..
ye aarzoo bhi dil hi dilata hai....
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Technology

Technlogy...

Today I was at mall where I saw one family where couple sharing their words and their kid was busy on TAB. I ignored that thing because that is normal. Technology affects the New generation not the previous generation. Then we gone further that time I saw teenage couple, they both busy with their respective phones. First I though that they are talking to each other….Funny…but then I went on tour of thought that , what technology means to us?


Technology is created for the betterment for human being. But is it moving the same way which we wanted. I strongly think this is going to wrong way now the technology is not serving us we became the servant of technology. Technology is penetrating our life like Drugs. We became dependent on technology.

Let me take my example when I was in 12th standard I was used to memorized all the Phone numbers of relative even the number of Public telephone booth. And then we got Mobile phones we have lot of friends but sometime I even forget my Number.

Let me take you to earlier world where there was no telephone no Internet was there. That time ifa guy and a girl were in love then they have to wait for the next morning to go to college or if they are engaged then they have to wait for a postman to deliver the message by their partner. How cute!!

And now it is a matter of a second. Just dial a number and you can listen to that person or if you are ready to spend some more then you can even see your partner digitally. But I bet that the feeling is way different than the previous world.

Why I have better understanding of the technological world because our generation saw the revolution in technology. Once It was a time when if we have to watch Mahabharata or Ramayana on TV our family insists us to take a bath then come in front of the TV. There were no vehicles on the road while these serial are broadcasted. All streets were deserted. And we used to talk like dialogues of Ramayana.

We were the part of that era when mobile phone was the status symbol. Now it is addiction.

But let us discuss that technology is really helping us or technology is like chitty in the film ROBOT…..

I am Putting this Question open…..


Ankit Vasavada